Toileting is an important milestone in every child’s journey, and approaching it with respect and gentleness can foster a positive and empowering experience.
Whether you’re following a Montessori-style toileting method or simply looking for supportive resources, the right books can help guide you and your child through this transition with respect and understanding.
In this post, I’m sharing my top book recommendations that align with Montessori principles, including some Chinese titles that naturally open the door to discussions about body safety.
1. Everyone Poops by Taro Gomi
Pros: A playful and light-hearted introduction to the fact that everyone, no matter who they are, poops. The simple language and illustrations are accessible to toddlers and preschoolers alike.
Cons: While fun, it doesn’t dive deep into the emotional or respectful aspect of toileting that some Montessori parents might be looking for.
2. Going to the Potty by Fred Rogers
Pros: Mister Rogers is known for his gentle, reassuring approach. This book addresses common concerns children may have about toileting, making it great for easing anxieties.
Cons: The language is a bit more traditional, which might feel a bit too formal or outdated for some parents who prefer a more natural tone.
3. Your Body Belongs to You (Chinese: 请不要随便摸我) by Cornelia Spelman
Pros: A great body safety book that introduces the concept of bodily autonomy. Its straightforward, non-threatening approach helps children understand that they are in control of their bodies, an essential message when learning about toileting independence.
Cons: Some parents might find the illustrations too simple, but the message more than compensates for it.
This book can be bought from My Story Treasury.
4. The Story of Little Bird (Chinese: 小鸡鸡的故事)
Pros: A whimsical book that introduces body parts in a fun and relatable way. It helps normalize conversations about the body, making it easier to segue into body safety and toileting topics.
Cons: The playful tone might not suit every family, especially if they prefer a more serious discussion about body safety.
This book can be bought from My Story Treasury.
5. 幼儿启蒙知识库 Little Encyclopedia (Focus on 健康, “Health” Volume)
Pros: This comprehensive set is excellent for introducing children to various concepts about health, hygiene, and the human body. The 健康 book emphasizes personal care and hygiene, including toileting, making it perfect for teaching lifelong self-care skills.
Cons: The encyclopedic format may be a bit dense for younger toddlers, but it’s fantastic for older children curious about more than just toileting.
This book set can be bought from My Story Treasury.
How Toileting and Body Safety Connect
Toileting is not just about learning to use the potty; it naturally ties into body safety conversations.
By giving children the vocabulary and confidence to understand their body’s functions, you also help them take ownership of their bodies and reinforce their right to privacy and respect.
Books like "Your Body Belongs to You" and" The Story of Little Bird" are perfect for gently introducing these important themes during the toileting process.
